Maybe there's no point in having friends. It always seems to end badly. For that matter, it always seems to end.
Over the course of 17 years, my longest friendship has been about 4 years total, with a 2 year period where we didn't talk or see each other, with my currently only friend Alex.
You would think that after years of friendship with a cousin, something as stupid as a cake topper wouldn't matter, but apparently, it does.
I never thought anything about it when, while preparing for my wedding, my cousin(G) handed me a cake topper and said something along the lines of "I'm never gonna use it." (She had broke it off with her fiance months ago.)
I never thought anything about it when, while preparing for my wedding, my cousin(G) handed me a cake topper and said something along the lines of "I'm never gonna use it." (She had broke it off with her fiance months ago.)
Fast forward to two months after my wedding. I had added a picture of old wedding supplies(Mostly ribbon and bubbles) to a facebook group to sell.
Her sister asks nicely if she can have a ring pillow, which was in the picture, she bought her son to use in my wedding(He ended up not being in it at all). I said okay, and then put it away to give to her the next time I see her, which will probably a different cousin's baby shower.
Her sister asks nicely if she can have a ring pillow, which was in the picture, she bought her son to use in my wedding(He ended up not being in it at all). I said okay, and then put it away to give to her the next time I see her, which will probably a different cousin's baby shower.
Then G messages me saying she wants the cake topper(Not in the picture) back, and comments the same thing on the picture less than a minute later. I had gotten rid of it right after the wedding though, and now she says I owe her $10.
Maybe I would be a little less upset over it all if:
She wasn't so mean about it. She said it completely rudely.I wasn't 97% sure she said I could have it, not borrow it.
I didn't know that her mom only paid $5 for it.(She told me when she first got it)
Now it seems like my only options are:
Give her $10 just to try to keep the peace(Which won't actually keep the peace because my husband will be mad it me.)
Maybe I would be a little less upset over it all if:
She wasn't so mean about it. She said it completely rudely.I wasn't 97% sure she said I could have it, not borrow it.
I didn't know that her mom only paid $5 for it.(She told me when she first got it)
Now it seems like my only options are:
Give her $10 just to try to keep the peace(Which won't actually keep the peace because my husband will be mad it me.)
Give her $5 because that's what she paid for it.
Or give her nothing because I'm pretty sure she gave it to me.
I hate confrontation. I hate causing a scene, and especially don't want to at a friends baby shower. But I also hate being walked on...
Or give her nothing because I'm pretty sure she gave it to me.
I hate confrontation. I hate causing a scene, and especially don't want to at a friends baby shower. But I also hate being walked on...
What would you do in my situation?